Comments on: Waiting for the global warming http://thisman.wordpress.com/2006/11/11/waiting-for-the-global-warming/ The male quest to grow Tue, 13 Oct 2009 11:12:17 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: this man http://thisman.wordpress.com/2006/11/11/waiting-for-the-global-warming/#comment-342 this man Mon, 13 Nov 2006 15:19:27 +0000 http://thisman.wordpress.com/2006/11/11/waiting-for-the-global-warming/#comment-342 It is ok. But you need to accept a place more as an observer. Your questions did not seem to me so much as trying to understand better an issue, but more as trying to move me in one direction or another. And unfortunetely there is no way a woman can directly help a man grow. My mother has tried for decades, it just does not work. Only men can help men. Women can observe, or provide the obstacle and the test. And I don't want tests as part of this blog. Because A) I need this blog as an external mirror where to look at my life, not as part of the issue, and B) I don't want to spend too much time thinking about what should I respond to comments. So once you have understood the difference between commenting to understand and commenting to test or guide, then you are very welcome back. And I will be honored to host your comments and answer them. Till then, this man It is ok. But you need to accept a place more as an observer. Your questions did not seem to me so much as trying to understand better an issue, but more as trying to move me in one direction or another. And unfortunetely there is no way a woman can directly help a man grow. My mother has tried for decades, it just does not work. Only men can help men. Women can observe, or provide the obstacle and the test. And I don’t want tests as part of this blog. Because
A) I need this blog as an external mirror where to look at my life, not as part of the issue, and
B) I don’t want to spend too much time thinking about what should I respond to comments.

So once you have understood the difference between commenting to understand and commenting to test or guide, then you are very welcome back. And I will be honored to host your comments and answer them.

Till then,
this man

]]> By: Tessa http://thisman.wordpress.com/2006/11/11/waiting-for-the-global-warming/#comment-341 Tessa Mon, 13 Nov 2006 14:57:15 +0000 http://thisman.wordpress.com/2006/11/11/waiting-for-the-global-warming/#comment-341 Last comment. I actually like you, was too curious and too blunt. Good luck with all that. Last comment. I actually like you, was too curious and too blunt. Good luck with all that.

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