Yes, indeed meditation can, should and does give me a bit of an edge in dealing with women. I come from the Taoist tradition so I am unaware of some of the meaning of some words in the yogic tradition. Prana I gather is chi, but Apana? Still I have no problem in making my energy reach orgasm in my body, or for that matter in another person body. Yet, somehow I never was fully satisfied with that technique. What instead I found does work, is when you are making love with a women, and she is getting very sexually aroused, and start tomove faster, with the risk of making you ejaculate, you can put your open hand toward her belly and just command: calm down. You don’t even need to utter the words loudly. Just command it to the energy, and her energy will calm down, and she will follow her energy. So that you can make love longer. There are plenty of games you can play by making the energy,although I tend to use them only when I have connection with a woman, or I am making out with her.

If I move the energy in a woman before we have connection, and I suceed, she might not realise that is me, (in which case I am manipulating her), or she might realise it, in which case it can freak her out. If instead I do it, announcing it, and explaining it, I gain value. Instead I might use energy games to get ready better, as your little trick suggested. By the way, what does ‘in state’, mean? Can youi give me an URL? I am still starting with the fast seduction community, and haven’t yet got round to all the material.

We should start to develop some posts on the topic seduction and energetic work. We could use a particular tag that no one else has used, and tag all our posts also with that tag.
Maybe ’seduction and chi’, or ‘inner seduction’, or something similar.

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That is just one small part of actually putting oneself out there in alphaness though, and unless I’m very lonely shyness is more powerful than my urge to break the ice.

As you practice chi-kung and meditation, it might be relatively easy for you to use a little kundalini magic to join prana and apana in a higher chakra. I’m learning that an inner glow in the heart and higher chakras tends to make a person have feelings that others are open to. In your other post you mentioned that neediness is a turn off for women. I’ve found that being energetically sensitive and able to project out and tune into others while being needy is an even bigger turn off. But being energetically sensitive while “alpha” can work.

As one woman said “as long as the man has a fire in the belly, he can be attractive”.

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P.S. I’m becoming curious at the possibility of using a little “black” magic – that is, instead of creating the spark of prana and apana in my own system – why not do it in someone else? That may sound trippy and fanciful, but my experiences lead me to believe otherwise. As to ethics, the only ethical consideration I’m aware of is one is helping or harming. People don’t brook energetic intrusions, so if I can create a warm loving glow in someone, I imagine some level of consent.

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P.S. if there is nomething you would like to ask about the part you did not understand feel free to ask.

I liked the dancing part. I didn’t understand it all, but it is a good posting anyway. Being a Beta male is something that you’ve been trained to, or you trained yourself to be. I’m working on identifying my beta behaviour and reestablishing myself as an alpha male (my Original Self). Probably the same thing as you are doing. But I’m way beyond the suicidal part.

Which of the many things that I said was from a new point of view?